downsizing hantaran

ok, im about to accept it. knowing the fact that i can actually save a lot kalau barang hantaran dikurangkan, it makes me feel better. mule2 i admit, i agak shock bile FMIL ckp yg die cume nk hantar 5dulang saje which include cincin of course, mas kahwin, and 3more side gifts konon as pengiring cincin n mas kahwin. during discussion mmg ade rase nk correct her since i n azam n so do my family sibuk ckp yg it'll be 7 vs 9. in fact dulang n alas dulang pun i dh siap kan 9.

tp bile i tgk muke FMIL yg bercakap dgn penuh minat, syahdu la plak kan. die pun mungkin ade plan die sendiri n her own imagination of this wedding. selama ni dh byk bende yg diturut kan ikut kehendak i. so stakat hantaran pun nk argue lg, kire sudah2 la tu.. lgpun mase tunang tu pun dh dpt mcm2. kire redha je la..

now, its confirmed. i've set it in my mind yg its ok with just 5 vs 7 trays of hantaran. so, should i say hantaran for her semua kire settle? well, FMIL kate its going to be:

:: the wedding ring - done

:: mas kahwin - somehow it'll b done for sure

:: sireh - pun somehow it'll be done effortlessly. bli je kat kedai india kt sri muda tu je pun.

:: buah - anytime je.

:: cake/chocolate/cupcake/wtv - tinggal order je. 

see, no shopping mall or hunting session needed. easy peasy.. bende yg blom ade pun i cross je. sbb bende simple kut. gi kedai, pilih, amik, bayar, chow.. xyah susah2 nk hunt design mane ke, size ke, tunggu sale ape ke. kan kan? well, itu part lelaki. senang je. kalo part pompuan plak camne? ni haku nk mengantor ni nk kasi ape.

according to plan pertama, i patut kasi die 9 dulang. but since ade pertukaran, i xtau nk deduct yg mane. was thinking to give him :

:: al-quran tafsir + sejadah + tasbih

:: bag + wallet

:: shoes

:: shirt + pants / baju melayu + songket

:: chocolate/cuppy cakes/cake

:: halwa

:: cincin

:: sireh

so skrg, kene buang 2.. azam awal2 dh kate yg die xmo cincin. so, no cincin. n the must give items are :

bag + wallet - dh beli dh pun

sireh - the penghulu kate nye

halwa - mmg plan nk bagi n mak knows exactly where to find it

so, 3 dh kompom msti kne ade.. i have a cousin yg terer buat macaroons. so, kalo bg macaroons je comel gak kut kan. nnt nk order la dari die.

her shop called Luv Siera. located at the sphere, bangsar south n its such a cosy place. i pun dh lame xkesana. hihihi.. kalo lepak pun sini2 je. xtersampai plak ke sane. her shop in the same time ade gak jual baju2 yg girlish n sweet2. biase la, owner pun sweet2 org nye.. u guys can check out their fb page [here]

just check out this sweet hantaran decor which i managed to find with the help technology (google)

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drool enough? hihihi..comel kan? terpanjang plak cite pasal item hantaran yg satu ni. so, lets just count macaroons in my list of hantaran for him. so, total dh 4.

also berhajat nk kasi azam solat gear mcm sejadah, tasbih, songkok n so on. ye la, asik ingat duniawi je, asik ingat mkn je, pstu kne la sembahyang plak. bersyukur kan.. smlm mase lelepak dgn membe2 bbf, amy beli sejadah as hantaran to her tunang. cantik sgt. suke sbb sejadah yg die beli tu sgt kemas. i pun nk carik cam die la.. hehehe.. so, thats 5.

another 2 ape plak ye? how about chocolate? n last skali kasi la jam ke, baju ke, pape la.. depend pade azam ape yg die nk. hehehe.. this acutally kne bwk discuss dgn azam dulu baru bole final. iskk.. hantaran utk bagi kt i senang je. xmemasal dh settle. utk bagi kat die tetap susah jgak walaupun dh bole buang 2. iskk..