combined reception - the goods and the bads

hello lovelies.. ape cer? sihat? hehehe.. actually tonite i nk share psl my reception yg cume sekali tu.. tahukah anda bahawa my wedding reception telah dijalankan serentak bagi acara bersanding dan bertandang.. so, kitorg naik pelamin skali je.. T_T

but anyway, i nk share ape yg i rase about the 2 in 1 reception hari tu..

tahukah anda that we actually divided the hall menggunakan warna tema?

yupp, besides family kitorg yg pakai baju ikut warna tema, hall pun dibahagi dua menggunakan walk way n red carpet. rational nye sbb supaya senang tetamu utk amik tempat masing2 n family sendiri pun senang nk layan. xla melilau nk carik n layan tetamu kan..

at first ade jgak yg menentang.. kate nye mcm bias la ape la.. tp i mcm xbole terima plak.. nk bias amende nye.. bkn guest i knal guest die kan?

n it turned out, easy breazy!!! i rase xde masalah pun hari tu.. lagi2 bile ade signage besar kat luar pintu. *hishhh... xde gambar clear pulak tp board masih ade di rumah azam* n it helps big time!!! btw, ini adalah idea bapa mertua ku.. huhuhu.. sungguh bangga dgn ke-geliga-an otak nye yg boleh dibuat batu cincin.

*nampak xsign pink n blue atas pintu tu?*

tahukah anda bahawa hampir 99.9% of the wedding expenses adalah dikonsi sama rata?

yupp, drpd katering, ke pelamin, ke hall rental, ke photographer, videographer, semua nye kitorg bahagi 2 ngam2.. owh.. i found it really helpful especially bile pengantin on budget mcm kami.. 

to decide on who to hire n who to fire, i normally akan propose ke both parents dulu n dpt kan pendapat masing2. we talked about the service, the PR, the price.. lepas tu bile dh agree, bahagi 2deposit n bermula la semuanya.. biase nye i la yg jadi tukang ckp utk both side. suami dok diam je arrange kan meeting. ahaha.. dh macam PA i je..

this is where of photog, videographer n MUA gather in one room.

tahukah bahawa kami juga memberikan doorgift yg berbeza mengikut suke hati kami masing kpd tetamu kami?

ok, i rase ini adalah common problem yg dihadapi oleh member2 group yg buat majlis sekali.. seriously, kalo bole elak dr kasi barang yg same, try elak.. in my case, i sgt beruntung sbb family semua very supprotive n memahami.

probably sbb kitorg same berpendapat yg kalo bagi same kang family msti xsuke dgn idea his family. n so do the other way round..

sudahnye, family kitorg kasi jar filled with chocolates..

and his family kasi paperbag filled with wajik, bunga telur, kerepek n such.. *maaf, xde gambar*

tahukah anda bahawa beberapa meeting diadakan sebelum majlis?

yupp, toleration is the essential. i bertuah sbb both parents sgt understanding.. ape2 semua diorg tanye i dulu.. we discussed n decide together.. i pun byk amik their pinion into consideration. well, as u know, wedding bkn tentang kite saje.. daripada hall dewan smpai la ke hall baju, parents kitorg akan masuk campur. trust me, take it with an open heart, ianya akan menjadi best.. *ohh, rase cam nk group hug dgn mak abah n mak abah mertua*

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overall i sgt suke dgn cooperation yg dihulur kan oleh our family members during the wedding day.. seriously, dgn floor manager nye, semua took part n khopefully they enjoyed it too.. 

sbb tu, forget about the pelamin that i dont quiet like, forget about my simple hair do bt i just love my wedding to the max. my beautiful wedding was complimented with our awesome family members.. HEART THEM BIG TIME!!!!

XOXO