my own version of pantang

happy saturday!

half day at work, baru smpai opis dh xsabar nk blk. wonder what dian is doing at the moment. the moment i stepped out of the house td, she's still soundly asleep. today, first day i tggl kn die kat rumah mertua. dgn xde warmer nye. i hope they know how to handle dian's ebm. ohhh.. kalo neves sgt nnt blk je la awal. kje pon xbyk ni *pstu ade hati nk siap kan satu entry. siap kan kje terus kan senang. pstu bole stand by blk..*

anyway, lps share pengalaman bersalin skrg ade rase nk share psl pengalaman berpantang plak. 

i pantang 40hari je. well, being a javanesse girl, begitu la. hahaha.. i pilih sape pantang cpt habis. kalo jawa abis dulu, i jawa. kalu melayu habis dulu, i melayu. but pantang melayu ade extra 4hari which to me sungguh lame. so, i ended my confinement n declared its a freedom on the 40th day after giving birth to dian.

alhamdulillah, it has ended safely. my pantang is totally my own version. no such thing as berpilis everyday (but berpilis adalah sgt best kalo rase pening2. recommended ) . bengkung pon kalo rajin je pakai. stokin ape tah lagi. i dont even wear long sleeves ape tah lg sweater. kain batik pon i pakai sekerat jln je. jahitan dh ngam, i terus pakai seluar tdo. tell you, my pantang life adalah sedikit menduga keimanan but syukur alhamdulillah, ia berjaya dikawal. smpai skrg i cume pantang part minum air n mandi air panas. tehehe..

my day one on pantang started at my mak's house. she took care of me very well. makan pon kadang2 bersuap *sbb tgh feed anak*. sampai day 10, i kne transfer rumah my mil. time tu i dh start sembelit n sembelit is the most painful pain i've ever felt. rela lagi bersalin dari sembelit yg sakit nye mau mkn 3-4 hari. dh la mase sembelit tu jahitan blom cure lg. so imagine la. mane nk jage jahitan lg, sembelit lg. goshhhh.. ade satu hari tu i spent almost the whole day in the toilet. anak pon i xusik langsung. gosh.. sembelit mmg la penyakit yg gross tp bersedia la wahai mother-to-be.

since my jahitan took me more than 2weeks to cure, i pon consumed pati ikan haruan dgn harapan dpt menyembuhkan jahitan. i minum sehari sekali n i minum yg polleney pnye. meh sini nk bgtau, rase nye adalah awful. tu pon i panas kan skit dlm warmer anak supaya bile die panas i rase panas n kurang rase payau ubat yg sgt... payau hanyir.. yucks.. tp sbb jahitan i lambat baik, i sgt look forward to drink it sbb i nk baik cpt. n sejurus i finished all the 6 bottles, jahitan i terus baik! kudos pati ikan haruan polleney.. i love u! *tips : nk kasi xmuntah lps minum, minum/mkn bnde masa. i hari tu minum fresh orange/anggur hitam*

ok, rewind ke zaman berurut. i start berurut pada hari ketiga selepas bersalin. n makcik tu urut i for 5days. overall, im very satisfied with her urut n service. she's such a very nice lady n thanks to poyaty sbb kasi contact makcik tu to me. she based in klang n travel daily to shah alam using the komuter train. according to makcik tu, mase pantang anak pertama, dibenarkan mkn semuanya supaya nnt mase anak kedua nnt dh bole tau ape yg bole mkn n ape yg tidak. that means, xsemua org makanan pantang nye same. i remember, satu hari tu i request mak i buat kan potato salad. n pstu, my jahitan mcm sakit gile. so moral of the story, jgn mkn telur. (mmg la xbole mkn patutnye kan. aku plak konpiden gune falsafah makcik urut tu sampai la akhirnye, tanggung la sakit sndiri).

part mkn, the first one week je i btol2 berpantang. lps one week, mcd n kfc pon aku blasah. itu pon sbb mase sembelit tu i was totally flat. nk mkn xde selera. husband tanye nk mkn mcd ke x. n i was like kalo la bole mkn, of cz i nk. dh la sakit, mkn mknan dlm pantang lg, mane la larat oiii.. pstu hubs make an effort finding out why actually xbole mkn mcd. rupe2 nye xde ape2 dari segi kesihatan, cume its oily la. it contain lots of fat. tanggung la kau sendiri kalo gemok. since husband pon kate die redha kalo i gemok, so he bought me mcchicken n there goes my pantang on food, broke by a yummy fast food burger.

btw, i gune set bersalin nona roguy. n ade item dlm tu xberusik langsung. hahahaha.. maaf kan la ye.. membazir sgt nampak nye saye ni. ok, lesson learnt.. anak seterusnye xpayah nk berset pantang sgt lah!

so, what about my baby? she's fine. minum susu seperti biase. awal2 hari tu ade gak kasi die susu formula sbb rupe2 nye susu i xkeluar. itu pon lepas try pam. padan la die ngamok. konpiden je mak nye df padahal susu xde. so beli kan die enfalac a+. lps tu ade satu mlm tu konon rajin la nak try double pumping, galak ni tgk susu byk. pam la sampai kering. budak baru blaja katekan. the next day, anak terus refuse df. nipple dh bertukar wajah ke? so time tu pun kasi dian fm. lps dian dpt tune blk isap my nipple, terus tobat xnk pam. 

about a week lebih before nk habis pantang, i dh start stok up susu. itu pon baru berani gune my manual bp je. alhamdulillah, bole la buat bekalan. tu pon i yakin stok mase pantang tu dh habis dh kne rotate dgn stok skrg. dian is an ebm-olic. 

on dian's 34th day, her majlis akikah pon diadakan. time tu i xdan nk pk doorgift. her cradle pon ala kadar je i buat. ape yg termampu saje la..

alhamdulillah majlis berjalan dgn lancar. pada hari ke 39, dian dicukur kan kepala nye kasi botak..

*my botak chin*

n exactly on last saturday which dian mase tu 47hari, husband n i took dian for outing at empire, subang. mak nye dh teringin benor nk mkn crispy honey chicken chipotle dgn choc molten, so anak nye pon diangkut same. percayalah.. ia tidak mudah! but we had fun. its a nice experience. hubby n i enjoy it very much.. cant wait for our next outing plak. cuti pjg ni.. mungkin akan bawa dian jln lg one of these days..

well, thats all for today. happy holiday all mummies n readers! *berucap dgn sgt suke hati*